While reading your inquiry we are reminded of the scripture wisely admonished especially in such situations like the one you expressed:
You are dealing with a family court process that was charged with authority by the divorce pleadings that were filed in the court. The only way through such proceedings is to follow the court rules. Such courts are not a matter of justice. They are equity courts resolving the civil contract of marriage because the parties to the marriage failed to do so on their own and asked the court to resolve the same. Once the court is charged with the responsibility to resolve such matters they do so in accord with the terms of the contract of marriage. If there was no specific written agreement to follow the Corp. State court follows the dictates of the Corp. State code and the determinations of the judge of the court. Thus, though the parties to the action may or may not be pleased with the outcome, the court has the authority to dictate how the matter will be resolved. The only way to survive such matters is to learn the law and the court rules and both follow them and hold the court accountable to them. Then follow the court’s dictates until all of its provisions are fulfilled. We can help people learn the law and the court rules, but we can do little else.Mathew at 5:40 wrote:And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also.
We have seen situations like this before and have helped beneficiaries and others get through it. Our experience with such matters shows the solution to the same is best made by following scriptural admonitions like: “Physician, heal thyself.” That is: rather than focusing on how difficult your circumstances are or who is forcing them upon you. Look to yourself and discover wherein you erred, failed or sinned. Then repent of it. Divorce is almost never caused by one person’s errors, failures or sins. It takes at least two parties to cause a divorce. Once the court is involved, the marriage contract is not over; it simply has a third party that stands between the husband and wife. The new third party is the court; and it will compel its terms through its martial authority. Therefore, the parties of the contract must comply with its terms until the contract is finally resolved. No one said you have to like the situation. And there may be nothing you can do to make it better within the situation as it stands. Thus, again the best way to improve on the situation is to: stop pointing fingers at others, learn the laws and court rules, apply them as needed and correct your part in the errors, omissions and or sins that were ultimately the cause of the divorce—purifying yourself otherwise such that you are worthy of the promises of peace from the King of Kings can only help as will all other acts you may follow to improve on your relationship with the King of Kings.
Such actions will invoke upon you the promise from the King of Kings that He will accordingly make your burdens light. We present this solution here because it is the only remedy we know of for such situations and even if you are an atheist, history proves it still works.Mathew at 5:44 wrote:But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
Mathew at 11:28-30 wrote:Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
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